I just finished John Maxwell's How Successful People Win. It answers questions about learning from losses, because it can help you win. Most of us need someone to help us figure out how to do that. If that is your desire—to become a learner from losses—you need to change the way you look at losses, cultivate qualities that help you respond to them, and develop the ability to learn from them. You can do that using this road map:
- Cultivate Humility: The Spirit of Learning
- Face Reality: The Foundation of Learning
- Accept Responsibility: The First Step of Learning
- Seek Improvement: The Focus of Learning
- Nurture Hope: The Motivation of Learning
- Develop Teachability: The Pathway of Learning
- Overcome Adversity: The Catalyst for Learning
- Expect Problems: Opportunities for Learning
- Understand Bad Experiences: The Perspective for Learning
- Embrace Change: The Price of Learning
- Benefit from Maturity: The Value of Learning